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27

May

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feminismandsocialmedia:

Maternity leave in the U.S. and abroad. Absolutely ridiculous.

feminismandsocialmedia:

Maternity leave in the U.S. and abroad. Absolutely ridiculous.

symphony-of-a-survivor:

The voices of rape culture.

symphony-of-a-survivor:

The voices of rape culture.

shelbygt1993:

President Obama and the Fight for LGBT Rights (by BarackObamadotcom)

25

May

sammmmtastic:

Truth.

sammmmtastic:

Truth.

19

May

Our work of love should be to reclaim masculinity and not allow it to be held hostage to patriarchal domination. There is a creative, life-sustaining, life-enhancing place for the masculine in a non-dominator culture. And those of us committed to ending patriarchy can touch the hearts of real men where they live, not by demanding that they give up manhood or maleness, but by asking that they allow its meaning to be transformed, that they become disloyal to patriarchal masculinity in order to find a place for the masculine that does not make it synonymous with domination or the will to do violence.

bell hooks, The Will to Change, p115. (via tiledsarenomore)

our
work
of
love

(via transitionsurrection)

If I have a cup of coffee that is too strong for me because it is too black, I weaken it by pouring cream into it. I integrate it with cream. If I keep pouring enough cream in the coffee, pretty soon the entire flavor of the coffee is changed; the very nature of the coffee is changed. If enough cream is poured in, eventually you don’t even know that I had coffee in this cup. This is what happened with the March on Washington. The whites didn’t integrate it; they infiltrated it. Whites joined it; they engulfed it; they became so much a part of it, it lost its original flavor. It ceased to be a black march; it ceased to be militant; it ceased to be angry; it ceased to be impatient. In fact, it ceased to be a march.

Malcolm X

This is my feelings regarding the Help and every other Civil Rights related movie Hollywood has ever produced. The White Savior theme is disingenuous, in addition to being incredibly inaccurate. 

(via dank-potion)

I think this whole culture is an inside joke I am not in on.

15

May

tiffasaurus:

every time i watch this I can’t seem to catch my breath or stop the tears. so beautiful. listen and read<3

Still
there are days
when there is no way
not even a chance
that I dare for even a second glance at the reflection of my body in the mirror and she knows why
like I know why she only cries when she feels she’s about to lose control
she knows how much control is worth
knows how much a woman can lose when her power to move
is take away
by a grip so thick with hate it could
clip the wings of god
send the next eight generations of your blood shaking
and tonight something inside me is breaking
my heart beating so deep beneath the sheets of pain 
I could give every tear she’s crying a name
a year
and a face I’d forever erase if I could just like she would
for you
or me
but how free would any of us be if even a few forgot what too many women in this world cannot
and what the hell would you tell your daughter?
your someday-daughter when you have to hold her beautiful face to the beat-up face of this place that hasn’t learned the meaning of STOP
stop
what would you tell you daughter
of the womb raped empty?
the eyes swollen shut, the gut too frightened to hold food, it was seven minutes of the worst kind of hell
seven
and she stopped believing in heaven
mistrust became her law, fear her bible, the only chance of survival
don’t trust any of them
bolt the doors to your home, iron-gate the windows, walking to the car alone, get the key in the lock like
please
please, please, please open
like already she can feel the five-fingered noose around her neck, two-hundred pounds of hate digging graves into the sacred soil of her flesh
please
please, please, please, please open
already she can hear the broken-record of the defense:
“answer the question, answer the question, answer the question miss”
why am I on trial for this?
would you talk to your mother, your daughter, your sister like this?
I am generations of mothers, daughters, sisters
bodies battlefields, war zones beneath the weapons of your brothers’ hands
do you know they’ve found land mines in broken women’s souls?
black holes in the parts of their hearts that once sang symphonies of creation as bright as the light on infinity’s halo?
she said, I remember how love used to glow like glitter on my skin before he made his way in, now every touch feels like a sin that could crucify medusa
kali oshun mary, bury me in a blue blanket so god doesn’t know I’m a girl, cut off my curls, I want peace when I’m dead
her friend knocks at the door, it’s been three weeks, don’t you think it’s time you got out of bed? no.
the ceiling fan still feeling like his breath, I think I need just a few more days of rest
bruises on her knees from begging to forget
she’s heard stories of vietnam vets who can still feel the tingling of their amputated limbs
she’s wondering how many women are walking around this world still feeling the tingling of their amputated wings, remembering what it was to fly, to sing
tonight
she’s not wondering what she would tell her daughter
she knows what she would tell her daughter, she’d ask her what gods do you believe in?
I’ll build you temple of mirrors so you can see them
pick the brightest star you ever wished on and I’ll show the light in you that made that wish come true
tonight
she’s not asking what you would tell your daughter, she’s life deep in the hell
the slaughter
has already died a thousand deaths with every unsteady breath
a thousand graves in every pore of her flesh
and she
knows the war’s not over, she knows there’s bleeding to come
knows she’s far from the only woman or girl trusting this world no more than the hands trust rusted barbed wire
she was whole before that night, believed in heaven before that night 
and she knows she won’t be the only one, no she knows she won’t be the only one
she’s not asking 
what you’re gonna tell your daughter, she’s asking what
you’re gonna teach 
you’re son.

13

May

Argentina makes history with new gender identity law

11

May

themaykazine:

When asked by CNN about the makeup-less photo of her in Bangladesh making the rounds this week, Hillary confirmed that her appearance is “just not something I think is important anymore.” Fox News aside, the world rejoiced over that sentiment. She “does not need to fret about having the right sort of career-enhancing wardrobe, haircut or makeup,” wrote Robin Givhan for the Daily Beast. “She could arrive for a diplomatic meeting wearing flip-flops and blue jeans and no one would doubt her authority.” Styleite’s Jada Wong responded simply with, “Yeah, she rules.” (via How Hillary Clinton Convinced Us Not To Care About Her Clothes)
I’ll admit I jumped on the sexist judgmental bandwagon when it was Barack vs. Hillary. I never disliked her – I actually admire her – but it was easy to call her out for her pantsuits. I’ve grown up more (I think), and I fully recognize that Hillary is badass. I hope we all got over that spell of immaturity, too.

themaykazine:

When asked by CNN about the makeup-less photo of her in Bangladesh making the rounds this week, Hillary confirmed that her appearance is “just not something I think is important anymore.” Fox News aside, the world rejoiced over that sentiment. She “does not need to fret about having the right sort of career-enhancing wardrobe, haircut or makeup,” wrote Robin Givhan for the Daily Beast. “She could arrive for a diplomatic meeting wearing flip-flops and blue jeans and no one would doubt her authority.” Styleite’s Jada Wong responded simply with, “Yeah, she rules.” (via How Hillary Clinton Convinced Us Not To Care About Her Clothes)

I’ll admit I jumped on the sexist judgmental bandwagon when it was Barack vs. Hillary. I never disliked her – I actually admire her – but it was easy to call her out for her pantsuits. I’ve grown up more (I think), and I fully recognize that Hillary is badass. I hope we all got over that spell of immaturity, too.

homoinmotion:

Audre Lorde - The Berlin Years 1984 to 1992
Director: Dagmar Schultz
Cast: Audre Lorde
Germany | 2012 | 81 min

Audre Lorde grew up in New York as the daughter of Caribbean immigrants, studied at Columbia University, worked as a librarian and finally became a professor of English Literature at Hunter College. After a further active life as an artist and an acitvist (African-American, feminist and lesbian), she died in 1992 at the age of 58.
Audre Lorde’s years in Berlin in which she catalyzed the first movement of Black Germans to claim their identity as Afro-Germans with pride. As she was inspiring Afro-Germans she was also encouraging the White German feminists to look at their own racism.

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09

May

barackobama:

On a pillar in HQ.

barackobama:

On a pillar in HQ.